Monday, December 31, 2007
I am excited that tonight I will get to welcome in another year. 2007 was a busy year for us. I will post some highlights in a sec. First off I want to say CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Michelle & Roy had their baby girl Abigail Claire yesterday. She was 9lbs, 4oz. Pretty big girl. As I recall, mom was a 10 punder, so maybe she got off easy?
**We had fun at Onion days and canning peaches (see previous posts).
**October 4th we welcomed a new baby girl, Myra Joanne, to our family. Look how much she has changed already!
**We did the Care Bear Tree for Elaine at the Festival of Trees.
**We attended many weddings and funerals for friends and family. Celebrated Birthdays and anniversaries. Darin and I have been married 7 years if you can believe it!
** We had a good Thanksgiving and Christmas, and are looking forward to a fun New Years Party tonight with friends. Thank you all for making our year fabulous and memorable. We love you! Happy New Year. We hope the best is yet to come for you and yours!
Saturday, December 29, 2007
Grandma & Grandpa Crook gave Ashton a tool set for Christmas. They are plastic, but pretty live like. I was attempting to clean my room when I hear the sound of breaking glass. I thought it had come from upstairs, so I check the other two bedrooms and the bathroom, nope. Then I hear it again and run down stairs. Ashton had decided to smash my ornaments on the tree. He only broke two big balls, one of which I had made. One heart ornament luckily didn't break. He was using the hammer and smashed them into teeny tiny bits. Those toys went on time out for a couple of days and he wasn't happy about the cleaning up. Neither was I! Thanks a lot mom & dad...... ;)
I'm just worried about what is next.
This week I was able to go to my friend Becky Baddley's wedding. She and I went to high school together. We weren't in the same grade, but had some classes together. We enjoyed sharing an early morning squirt in math class. the good old days. :)
So Thursday I went to the sealing, that I wrote about in the last blog entry. Friday night I packed up the kids and picked Darin up from work. I think from now on I am going to call him when I leave home and tell him I am at the office. That way when he comes out, I'll be there and not having to wait 30 minutes! Grrr. So the directions that the lovely google maps gave us were inaccurate. If we had been in any other state, it might not have been that big of a deal, but in Utah, there are chapels on every corner so to speak. So we followed the directions, not quite to a chapel, but there is one nearby. We unload from the van, set up the double stroller and go in the church. Yeah...not the right one. There was some family Christmas party going on. Okay, back out into the freezing cold, back in the van, but the stroller away - and now we are on our own. The computer had us turn North when we should have gone south. Usually the Internet mapping programs are pretty reliable. We weren't the only ones that had problems, so I'm glad we weren't the only ones!
The reception was set up beautifully. Becky, if you can believe it, had ringlets in her hair and her wedding dress on. Gorgeous!! Tons of lace and jewels, not what I'd have expected from Becky. As you may remember, this is the girl that ALWAYS had her hair in a pony tail, wore a warm up suit and boxers. She was such a tomboy. My crusty Marshmallow! Her hubby was in his army uniform and looked very smashing. We visited with the Baddley's a little, ate some goodies. We were about to leave when in walks a blast from the past. Jeff Sayerwin and Piper Davis. I went with Jeff to his Prom in Rohnert Park, back in the day. He's now at BYU. It was fun to catch up a bit. He made some comment about my "passel of kids", but hey, they're mine and I love 'em! I am so happy I have them!
Becky's mom Sue took our pictures at our wedding. She did such a nice job. They are my favorites! She took the ones at the temple in the morning. She enjoyed meeting my kids and stuff. Everyone has changed a lot in the last few years! Becky & Brennon will be going to Georgia soon for Army stuff. I'm glad I have email so I can keep in touch with her. Congrats on the lovely wedding you two!~~~
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
I might get "caught up" with blogging today. Wow! Christmas Eve was a pretty mello day. Darin worked a half day (about 5 hours) from home. I got up and started cleaning my kitchen. I still had dirty pans and cookie cutters everywhere from making Christmas cookies. AGHHH! So I quickly cleaned so I could make my pies. Deann had a great idea. Since we both wanted a variety of pies, but not tons of pies, we decided to each make two (besides our own pumpkins) and split them between us so we would each have 4 different pies. Deann made sweet potato and ended up with 3 of them, so she just gave us a whole pie, and blackberry cheesecake. Yum. I made Cherry and Peanut Butter.
She wanted to come and make the switch before the big storm. Well, it wasn't that big of a storm, but we still got about 4 inches out of it. We had a nice, white Christmas. Lets see, then we cleaned a little, pulled out the couch bed and snuggled up to watch Elf with popcorn. Violet laughed and laughed. Ashton made it through most of the movie. Carolyn came and dropped off two cute scar bears that she and Jennilyn from Intermountain Healing Hearts had been working on. They turned out so great. My kids carried them around for the rest of the night.
We dressed the kids up as Mary & Joseph. Ashton was so mad. He kept saying, "I don't want to be Jofess. No Jofess." So funny that he couldn't say Joseph. We read the Christmas Story and talked about Jesus, and why we celebrate Christmas. Then we set out milk and cookies for Santa, and open one present. Violet wanted to open the one from Uncle Josh and Aunt Renee. She got a sticker book with unicorns and fairies. I think she slept with it. Ashton got a magnetic construction yard. Violet and Ashton went to bed really well. Violet didn't even get out of bed to play with her toys like usual. I think she was excited for Santa, and didn't want him to come when she was still awake.
Darin and I didn't have too much to do. When putting together a bike, he had to get a hammer to fix part of it, but other than that it was uneventful. WE watched the end of It's a wonderful Life. We were in bed by 11 I think. Too bad I was up several times with Myra. Poor thing pukes a lot. Okay, it's spit up, but it is a mess.
Monday, December 24, 2007
Since my children are currently busy, I thought I'd try and get a little caught up with my blogging before tomorrow.
Kaidence seems to be doing well so far with her new heart! Yay! Thursday was Darin's work Party. Jaylyn was here, and she watched the kids. I took Myra with me and picked Darin up from work. I had my neighbor do my hair. It was cute and curly. I'll try and get a picture up. As I picked up Darin, the huge storm hit. It took us an hour to get to point of the mountain. We were crawling!! We got to the party about an hour and a half late. We still made it in time for pictures and dinner and stuff, because everyone else was late too. One of the VP's got in a wreck in Parleys Canyon and made it there about 10pm.
Myra was pretty cranky, but thankfully she wasn't the only baby there. The food was good, as always. Darin won the top performer award for the account managers. He got a nice crystal/glass mouse (not the mammalian kind, the computer kind) with his name and stuff on it. He can display it at work. Good job Darin! I won the rosemary plant that was on our table because I had the birthday closest to March 18th. I'll do my best not to kill it, but my luck isn't so good with plants. There was a comedian/musician that was very very funny. Don't ask me the name, I don't remember. By the end of the night Myra was miserable - she wouldn't sleep since it was pretty loud. It snowed the entire time we were at the party and was icky by the time we left.
Driving home was hazardous. Since I had picked Darin up, we had to stop and get the van. I drove the car home and hated every moment of driving through the snow. It stresses me out so bad! I couldn't see much and was going like 20 MPH on the freeway. I made it home alive, without wreaking. Miracle! Darin got a birthday card in the mail from his mom on Friday and worked from home! That was nice. I had a ton of stuff to do for primary and the kids played out in all the new snow. It is snowing again, so we will be having a white Christmas tomorrow! Friday I also picked up part of my kids' Christmas from a neighbor. She gave us a train table with the pieces. It's used, but hey, I didn't have to buy it and my kids will have all kinds of fun!
Friday night Darin played games with Chris and Shelby & Dean. they had a lot of fun. Saturday morning Darin took Chris and Dean tot he airport. Then he went out and did a little Christmas shopping. I have been good and haven't peaked. I've learned that it is nice to have at least one surprise on Christmas morning! Saturday we made sugar cookies and decorated them. It was a lot of fun. We have tons. Anyone want some?
I will have to post about our Andrew Family party some other time....Myra is screaming. TTFN!
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Our little friend Kaidence is getting a heart transplant today! We are hoping and praying that all goes smooth. A big thank you to the donor family. What a gift to give! Thank you where ever you are!
If you are not yet registered to be an organ and tissue donor, sign up today. It is easy and can benefit so many lives! It is much easier for you and your loved ones to make the decision now, rather than in a time of pain, confusion and grief. Thank you all.
What a cute couple of girls. I was just thinking about our last Christmas with Elaine. We were in California visiting our parents. It was also Vi's first Christmas. I am glad that we spoiled her and that we have Christmas morning recorded. It is fun to watch and see her so excited. We miss you Elaine!
Friday, December 21, 2007
Jenny tagged me for this. So, here we go.
Favorite Christmas song:Have yourself a Merry Little Christmas. But, I am partial to anything Christmas. I have quite the collection and listen to them year round. I wouldn't want them to get dusty!
Favorite Christmas treat: My Grandpa Crooks Homemade Christmas Candy
What does your Christmas tree look like: Half of the lights have gone out. Sporadic ornaments on the bottom (Ashton has made me move them all up higher) and a funky bow on top because our old tree topper died and we haven't replaced it.
When do you start shopping for presents, on Black Friday or the day before Christmas? I too start thinking about Christmas and buying stuff in Aug/Sept. But it seems there is still always some last minute item I have to run out and get. I think I already know what that will be for this year...
Favorite Christmas tradition: Well, probably when I was little and my brother would sneak into my room (although I'm pretty sure my parent's knew) and we would lay in bed and talk and get all excited for Christmas. Fun times. I think we did this pretty much up until I was married and not living at home, eh Josh? I also loved our tradition of making Gingerbread houses. We always made 3. One for our family, one for Joshua to give to a friend, and one for me to give to a friend. My mom would occasionally make Sleighs to give away. Plus reading the Christmas story and dressing up as Mary and Joseph with a random doll as Jesus. Good Times!
Best holiday memory:Same as above.
Fake or real tree:Most of my childhood we had a real tree. Since then, I've had both and I think they both h ave their ups and downs. I don't prefer one over the other.
Favorite Christmas movie: All of them! I love Elf - Crack up laughing every time! And White Christmas, and While you were Sleeping, and The Christmas Box, and so many more!
What do you want for Christmas this year? So many things that cannot be given. To lighten other's grief. Since there isn't much I can do there, I'll take enjoying my family and being loved!
Favorite Christmas story: Twas the Night Before Christmas
People you want to tag: Michelle Z. and the Pattons. And as always anyone else who would like to participate!
Posted by Melissa at 10:14 PM
Well, I suppose I may be exaggerating a bit. But, it was still a fun day. Darin went to work, nothing too unusual there. I attended a funeral for a little heart friend. The parents of this child had also had their first born pass on as well. The paternal grandfather and the father both spoke. Of course they sang "I am a child of God" which we sang at Elaine's funeral. I think the thing that stuck out the most to me was the acceptance that these parents have of the Lord's will. They know it is going to be hard, and want children so badly. They have had both of theirs die within a year. Both as innocent babies. Two completely different defects. And yet, are waiting for spirits they can raise at this time. It is a blessing to know where our children are, but so hard not to be with them, enjoying them at this moment. Someday it will happen, but the wait seems so long to us now. I hope this family, and the so many others who have had loved ones leave them, are able to feel at peace and be comforted. I hope you all know how often you are in my thoughts, and that I grieve with you.
Back to the Birthday. I was able to run a few errands since Jaylyn stayed home with Vi & Ashton. Darin had hinted that he would like an Ice Cream cake this year, rather than his usual German Chocolate cake. I found ones at a really good price ($13 for the size of a regular round cake). They had a few different choices. I got the Mud Pie because I thought it would have the most chocolate - which he enjoys.
When he got home, we fed the kids dinner, opened his presents - complete with "heavy heavy hang over"- (a drawing of a princess from Vi and a new Baseball glove). Dean helped with the purchase of the glove since I didn't know what would be a good one. Darin was surprised and likes it a lot. Then we put candles on the cake and sang Happy Birthday and the song my Grandpa Olsen always sings. I served the cake and it turned out that one of the ice cream layers wasn't chocolate, but, you guessed it, COFFEE. Yuck! I felt bad, but it wasn't too bad to eat around that part. I don't think Darin ate more than a bite though. Too bad.
After that Darin and I (and Myra) went to the Macaroni Grill for a birthday dinner. Dean and his girlfriend Lindsay (or maybe Lindsey - I'm not sure how she spells her name) had dinner with us. It was nice to eat at a leisurely pace and not worry about kids throwing food, being noisy etc.
Darin had a nice talk on the phone with his parents and also from mine. He also got a Birthday Card from his brother Roy and his wife Leslie. Thanks guys. It was a quiet birthday, but he is playing Enemy Territory (a computer game) with his brother, nephew and friend Shelby tonight as a sort of Birthday get together. I hope he is having fun downstairs. They are awfully noisy! :)
It seems like there are so many things that I need to post about these days. It has been a busy week! Here are a few random things.......
**I love the Christmas season because it is the only time of year that we get anything in the mail besides bills and junk! Hooray for Christmas cards. I have all cards and pictures up in my house. I love seeing all of your lovely faces. Thank you!
**One of the girls (ok, I suppose I should say women...but that makes me feel old!) that I play volleyball with is also named Melissa. As you can imagine this can be confusing so we rarely play on the same team. Well, last week I found out that her husband's name is Darron. Two Darin & Melissa's! Well, her hubby's name is spelled differently, but it sounds the same! All I could think was do do do do (you know, twilight zone theme). Weird! Luck for us our children have different names!
**After two years of trying, I finally have my keys for Primary. I can open a closet and the doors at the church now. Amazing.
**The CD player in my car died a few months ago. Miraculously this week, it began to work again. I was stoked that I didn't have to fork out money I don't have, for a new one. Only bad thing is it stopped working again. I'm thinking there is some sort of short....any suggestions?
**In Myra Bean news, she discovered a new friend this week, in the mirror. Laugh Laugh giggle giggle grin. So cute! She also enjoys her play gym already and is starting to motate. She moved herself 180 degrees on it today. Whoa!
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Ok, I am going to try and fit a lot in here, and not make it too long. We will see how well I do. Friday I went to the Post Office with all three kids. Holy craziness! Myra was screaming because she does not enjoy her car seat, and Violet and Ashton were running a muck. I tried to "control" them, but failed miserably. Thank goodness for the kind woman in line ahead of me. She helped swing Myra so I could wrangle the other two. Then she let me go in front of her in line - Heaven sent! Almost didn't survive that trip!
Friday night we played some fun games with Melissa and Shelby. It was a much needed break for them I think, what with the funeral and all. Saturday morning Violet went to a birthday party complete with clown. The clown did face painting and balloon animals and tricks. The kids loved it. Vi had her face painted with two princess crowns. And had a flower wand made out of balloons - I'm sensing a theme here...
We picked her up and headed to PG to our friend's the Coulson's. the idea was for Darin to help Mark with some Honey Do projects. They got started a couple of hours late, but managed to replace an electrical outlet (the house was built in '42) and put in a ceiling fan. Then we had dinner and rushed home. Jaylyn had shown up at our place by then, so we passed the kids off to her and headed down the street to another party. This was a lot of fun as well. We had the usual white elephant gift exchange. It's good company and lots of laughs. We had Myra with us, and she was a bit fussy...We ended up being one of the last ones there, and decided to stay and play some games. We played Sequence and Ticket to Ride for a couple of hours. The Bishop started to get tired (said something about early morning meetings...what church has those LOL)? It was fun!
Sunday was church - me trying to get ready for the new year - copies galore! temple recommend interviews and dinner with a family in the ward. Oh, and a two hour Primary meeting thrown in there somewhere too. Whew, busy busy. One of these days I will catch up with the rest of this week, but there is the over view.
PS - I swiped (3rd time stolen) a pair of fuzzy toes socks from my friend at the gift exchange. Yay for me. I love warm socks. And they are pink so Darin wont try and latch on to them. For some reason at the party, when I put the socks on, everyone thought I was trying to rub it into my friend that I took her socks....my feet were just cold! :)
I just wanted to quickly post a Happy Birthday message to my wonderful husband. Happy 31st Birthday, Darin! I love you so much. I am so luck to have such a smart, hardworking, good looking man. I am thankful that you love me, and that you have so many wonderful talents. You have such a great knowledge of the gospel and have an amazing testimony. Thank you for your example, love and kindness.
I love you!
Monday, December 17, 2007
Let's go back a week ago (last Sunday) to us eating dinner after church. Violet got some food stuck between her teeth and got a tooth pick. As she proceeded to get the food out, she also managed to knock out her filling. As you may recall, Vi had decay on her front tooth that was removed and then filled in so her front teeth would look the same. Well, that chunk fell out. Why is all the work falling out after about a year? Hello! So I call and they can get her in Tuesday. We go and she does pretty good while they fill the tooth, and dry the filling etc. So it come to the end with just 10 seconds left. They need to smooth the filling and make it match the edge of her tooth. The whistler (aka drill) she says hurts and she has a complete break down. She won't let them finish. I tried bribery, threats of every kinds, coaxing and being nice. Nothing worked and so we had to schedule her to come back in, under medication / sedation to finish 10 SECONDS of work. I cannot believe it! Meanwhile Ashton and Myra are also both crying. I hadn't had a good nights sleep in what felt like eternity.
The story doesn't end here. We go and pick up Darin and go to lunch. Then we drop him off and head ho me. So we get stuck in traffic on the freeway (who knows why- there wasn't an accident). I decide to get off at Center street and try to go around. Everyone else is doing that too, so it is stop and go. As I get to Target Violet and Ashton both start complaining that their stomachs hurt and they are going to puke. Great, just what I want to do, clean up barf. So I pull over in Target parking lot to let their stomachs rest. I had wanted to run some errands that, at this point, I had given up on, and decided to take a chance that Target had what I wanted. So, we all went into the store. They don't have what I need so we get back in the van, I decide to go up to the next exit. As I am in the far left lane to turn on the freeway waiting, and incident management truck pulls on the freeway to stop traffic. I cannot move out of the lane since there is another lane also turning. Great, at this point all three kids are screaming and crying and I reached my breaking point. I start bawling too. All I want to do is get my kids home...and everything is standing in my way. It takes 20 minutes to creep up to the next exit. I get off, and drive another 20 minutes through town to finally get back on the freeway (which is moving fine now, BTW) and continue driving home. So what should have taken me 25-35 minutes took close to two hours. Deann can attest to the fact that I had lost it by then!
Fast forward to today. Darin "Forgets" to set the alarm, we wake up when we are supposed to be leaving in 15 minutes. Great. Grab kids in PJ's, hurry out and get there15 minutes late. Luckily I didn't forget Vi's drugs, which were a hassle to get. The Dr. had to call it in to the pharmacy multiple times. Some one, I don't know who, kept misplacing it or something. I went to pick it up, not called in. Hmmm, called the dentist, they said they did call, but would try again. Two days later it is finally actually done and pick up. It shouldn't be that difficult. At least I got smart and would call the pharmacy to make sure it was there before driving to get it.
So Vi gets doped up, things go fine. She also has a cleaning and x-rays done. Trying to get the most out of the sedation. Good news is she has NO NEW CAVITIES! Thank heaven for small miracles! Darin has a cleaning and has a chipped tooth he needs filled. He's not happy about having a numb mouth to talk to customers with today. Oops. Violet is still all loopy and goofy. She walks like a drunken sailor. She was eating and says, "Hey mom. You know the whistler, they should call it the Hurter. Then the pokey thing with pokeys on two sides, they could call that the whistler. It doesn't whistle, but it's the whistler, not the pokey one. Okay mom?" Do you think I should suggest to the dentist that he call the drill the "hurter?" Yeah right. She is making up all kinds of lyrics to songs. Pretty funny to listen to.
Now she has absolutely no space between her two front teeth. I hope that wont be a problem. I think he did that on purpose so we wouldn't have a repeat. He is more than likely sick of seeing us in his office. Plus betweent he dental experience and the funeral, I didn't get to go to volleyball at all last week. Boo Hoo. I am totally there tomorrow!
As you can tell, I have changed the look of my Blog. I like the new background. I think it is fabulous! When I was changing it though, I wasn't paying attention (kids, lack of sleep, etc.) and all of my widgets (Info along the side of my blog) was deleted. This meant I had to basically recreate the entire thing. UGHHHH, like I didn't have enough going an already! I hope that I was able to find everyone's blogs and link them to mine. If I have missed one, please let me know!
We went to Dan's funeral on Thursday. It was nice. The kids were nuts....but that's to be expected. We played games with Melissa and Shelby on Friday. I hope it was a good distraction for them. They kept a lot of the flowers and plants. They even have a larger wreath that looks great on the wall for Christmas. Shelby's mom gave them the flag too, so they will be getting a nice encasement for that. The holidays will be hard, but at least they know Dan isn't in pain any longer.
We had another baby in our Support group pass on this week. He had HLHS and was 7 weeks old. I will be attending the funeral on Wednesday (Darin's birthday). The family also had a daughter die about 12 months ago. I don't know the cause of her death, but two angels......so hard! We are praying for them and hope they are able to find comfort and peace.
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Darin and I will be attending a funeral tomorrow for our friend Shelby's dad. We just wanted to let their family know that we are thinking about you at this time, and about the pain you are experiencing. Dan will be missed and forever loved.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Little kids are so funny, and make me laugh every day. Ashton's vocabulary has really taken off recently. It is so much fun to have conversations with him and hear what he is thinking about. Here is an example of a conversation I had with Ashton a few weeks ago:
Me: What color is the sky?
Ashton: Blue & White & .....Orange! Nemo is orange. He's a Clown fish. The clown fish fights sharks. I gonna fight sharks.
He then commences to fight imaginary Sharks.
Some other cute things that he says on a daily basis are: He calls Myra Sissy. It's adorable. "What's Wrong, sissy. Why're you crying Sissy etc."
He now calls his belly his "Tumbly" thanks to Winnie the Pooh. (Rumbly in my Tumbly). I love it!
And there are always the phrases he picks up from various movies like, "That was totally Wicked! " (Incredibles)
"I'm a happy child" (Toy Story)
"Who you callin' busted Buster?" (Toy Story)
"You get back here right now, Nemo! " (Finding Nemo)
"I'm off duty!" (Monster's Inc.)
Do you think mu kids like Pixar? Those are the ones that I can think of off hand. He also says, "I'm freakin' out" but I haven't been able to place that one yet. Silly boy.
Here are a couple of pictures of my new cousin Conner.
In other news, I get to take Violet to the dentist, again. She'd had some decay on her front teeth which we taken off and filed down a bit. Then the dentist "patched" them so there wasn't a huge gap.. Well yesterday that piece managed to fall off, so she has a funny smile. I have to go and get it fixed so it doesn't rot again...grrrr taking three kids to a dentist's office 30 minutes away is no fun! Wish me luck! The big bummer is I have to miss playing Volleyball. Boo Hoo!
Friday, December 7, 2007
Ok, I am going to attempt this post, while listening to Myra cry herself to sleep. Poor thing hasn't napped all day and is so tired. I don't know what the deal is. It was payday today, so like always, I needed groceries and things. The kids slept in about 45 minutes this morning. I thought the day was off to a great start. Well, by the time we got to the store, Myra was screaming (like she has been all day). I have to put Ashton in the cart so I can keep track of him. Violet likes to hang all over the outside of the card, which makes it hard to navigate, but she is pretty good.
Ashton was really on one today. Usually I can give him something to hold and he is ok. Well today he proceeded to Smash my bagels with his shoe, chew through a package of hot dogs, open the napkins, tear apart the box with fruit snacks and have a melt down because I wouldn't let him eat them, and open a bag of split peas. AGHHHH! At least I didn't need bread.
My head was spinning by the time I got home, and I have to go back because I only got about half way finished before I decided we couldn't stay any longer! The joys of motherhood! ;)
My Aunt Sandra had baby number 4 this morning at 8:27am. His name is Conner Ray (After his Grandfather) and he is 7 lbs 3 oz 20 inches long. This was Sandra's 4th c-section and first boy!! We are so excited for them! Mom has some low blood pressure (must be a fourth c-section thing) but doing good, and baby is healthy and doing a lot of sleeping. :) I'll post a picture when I get one!
Happy Day Late Birthday to my brother!! I can't believe how old you are Josh! HE HE. All grown up and married. Weird! Happy Birthday! I love you!
We went to the Christmas Box Angel ceremony last night. We are lucky to have a monument close to us. We got the kids all bundled up. Ashton had fallen asleep and we had to wake him up to go. Not a pleasant thing! He screamed and cried for like an hour. Takes after his dad in the "ornery when woken up" department. It was fairly cold out - 36 degrees F when we got tot he cemetery. Lucky for us this year there wasn't much wind, but it rained on us. Myra stayed nice and cozy in her winter bunting from Aunt Donna. I am so glad we had that for her. I held her during the program and she slept. Ashton and Violet mostly played in the snow while Darin and I tried to listen.
There was a beautiful musical number sung by two ladies, and the had guitars. Then a woman who is a grief counselor spoke. She did a really nice job. Probably the most memorable thing, to me, that she said was that she is a word person. She doesn't like to say she has "lost" so & so, or so & so has "passed away". She said that she always uses the words passed on, because that is what they have done. Moved on ahead of her, where she will move on to one day. I think it meant a lot to me because I don't ever want to forget Elaine, or how much she taught me. I love her and miss her every day. She has just progressed through this life quicker than I have. I cannot wait for the glorious day when I can see her again. I think about what amazing things she must be doing now, and hope that I am doing what I need to, so I can be with her forever.
So back to the ceremony, we lit candles, talked about how the ceremony began (for more information check out:http://www.richardpaulevans.com/statue.html ). Then everyone is given the chance to place a white flower at the base of the statue. Darin's co worker has a son in the cemetery. He couldn't be there, so we put a flower at his grave. It was a nice ceremony. I enjoy going every year.
I have been involved with several families who have recently had children pass on. These children also suffered from Congenital Heart Defects. It brings back so many memories of being at the hospital, funeral home, just remembering the feelings I had is those first heart aching months. Some days are still that way, but now they are more filled with sweet memories of Elaine and all the fun times we had with her. I have been showing Ashton pictures of Elaine, but he still doesn't recognize a picture of her and say Elaine. I want him to know about his sister. He thinks he only has two and he doesn't. I hope as he gets a little older, her will be able to understand a little bit more.....since she is still such a big part of our lives, and will always be in our little family.
I am sorry if this post has been a little depressing for some. This holiday season so far, I haven't been much in the mood. Maybe it's emotions/hormones from having a baby recently - who knows. But I have been thinking about Elaine a lot lately, and hope maybe some of you think about her once in a while too. I don't want her to be forgotten..... www.elaineandrew.com
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
Myra had her two month check up today. Here are her stats in case you are interested.
Weight: 10 lbs 8 oz (42%tile)
Height: 21.5 inches (18%tile)
Head: 35 inches (30%tile)
All in all she is growing and doing well. She got many immunizations (four leg shots and an oral vaccine). The oral vaccine is a new one for the rotavirus. Man I wish they had that for the other kids - Ashton always gets it! She is sleeping now, but was cranky with gas this evening between the shots, oral vaccine, crying and Tylenol. I hope she sleeps tonight!
Monday, December 3, 2007
Once we finally got to the event and found a place to park, Aston puked. Gross!!!! He had to lose the sweatshirt and wear his coat inside - it was superdy dooper cold. No, Ashton was not ill, just car sick. It was a stinky cold/wet mess to clean up and then finally go into the Festival.
Saturday, December 1, 2007
I am having issues with my so called "John Wayne" toilet paper. You know, it's rough, tough and doesn't take no crap of of anybody. At least that is what my brother tells me it is (ok, and Kenny). Anyway, I buy the generic brand at costco. It suits us just fine. I big issue though, is this last batch has about half of the rolls that weren't perforated. At All! So it is extremely difficult to tear off the tissue when you need it. Violet will pull off what she needs, and it won't tear on one side and she will have the roll basically torn in two. GRRRR. I should write to the company and tell them my frustrations!
Friday, November 30, 2007
It is official, Myra has finally developed the inevitable Baby pattern baldness. She not only has the oh so noticeable lack of hair on the back on her head, but is also losing it on the sides so she, in fact, looks like she has a Mohawk. It is always so much more distinct when the hair is dark. Grrr. Oh well, it doesn't change how cute she is, right?
My most exciting news of the week is that after her getting up every two hours (at least) at night, she slept for 7 hour straight last night, and I slept for 6 of those hours. Man oh Man, I feel half human again. I really needed the sleep after the crazy evening we had last night. Details to come in another post....
Reader beware that this might be a little too much information for some of you, especially those who have not had any children yet....
So, Myra's poop has changed from the normal breast fed baby yellowy orange stuff to a greeny weird color. Plus she only goes once every couple of days. I have nursed all my kids, and don't remember any doing this while being breast fed. Apparently it's ok and nothing is wrong with her. She still has plenty of wet ones, and she isn't even as gassy as she used to be. It may take some getting used to, but I am not complaining. Ashton more than makes up for Myra in the poopy diaper department.
So, I am off (ok not really moving but you understand!) to work on all the paperwork for primary 2008. It would be a whole lot easier if I had my 2008 Stake calendar. Hopefully it will be ready before February, which is when we got it last year....
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
I know this is a little late in coming. You get it when you get it! ;)
Monday, November 26, 2007
I know that I am a little behind with blogging, please forgive me. I'll catch up one of these days. Preferably one where I have gotten a little sleep before hand! ;)
Today was the big set up day for the Festival of Trees. Whew! A lot of work and love goes into each and every one of the trees. I had to run around this morning and get things printed for Elaine's picture and story. We did Elaine's Care Bear tree called "Care Bears Holiday". It turned out very cute. Covered in holiday dressed bears with a bunch of care Bear paraphernalia under the tree. For anyone in the Utah area who is interested in attending here is the Link:
It is at the South Towne Expo Center. Any information you need should be on their site. Or you can email me. The tree is on Isle L. It is site number 24, so the far back corner. the one next to it called "Capture the Magic" was also decorated by us. Well, mostly by Nancy's work. It is a fairy tree. Nancy, Brynn, Cadie, Jacki & I had fun. Oh, and Myra too! She was so good. There was even another baby there with her exact same outfit! I also got to meet Vicki and see her tree. It is C-17 and for her daughter Hannah.
I picked up our Christmas cards today. They are all so cute. If you want one, make sure I have your address! :) Myra is smiling more and more everyday. She definitely looks like her mom when she smiles. Happy Birthday to my cousin Jenny. I hope you had a great day!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
My cousin issued a challenge, and I am actually doing it. Amazing, I know. So, here is a list of things I am thankful for this Thanksgiving (in no particular order.)
~~My 4 perfect children - A baby to hold and cuddle, Vi & Ashton to play with and enjoy, and one watching over me from heaven.
~~The weather that has been unusually warm thus far for the winter season.
~~Freedom, Family, a roof over my head......
~~Good friends, you know who you are ;0)
~~ My hard working Weetie Wuv
I imagine I could go on and on, but it would be trite and redundant. So, it's nothing too grand, but there you have it.
I picked up sparkling apple and pomegranate juice. I thought it sounded very interesting. I am putting up my Thanksgiving polls early since I won't have Internet access for a couple of days.
Happy Thanksgiving All!!!
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
And what is my darling daughter a pro at you ask.....torture. I've been running on 5 hours of sleep, received in one hour intervals. She has done this to me several days in a row now. I am convinced it is some form of Terrible Medieval Torture. At least that's what it feels like to me. I could almost handle anything else...ok, not really.
The vote's are in. I must say I was surprised that the popular answer was Myra Bean. Much to my dad's dismay, we do call her that quite often. So that answer was WRONG! The Correct answer is M.J. No way do we call her that! That is from Spider man, people. Come on now! ;) Violet's name of choice is Princess poops - a -lot (or pukes - a -lot, or cries - a-lot, which ever is most applicable). She has even made up a song to the care bears theme song. Ask her to sing it for you some time. It is crazy funny. Ashton of course likes Baby Myra. In fact, I was going through some pictures today, and there was a picture of Ashton at about 2 months old. I showed him, and he was convinced that it was Myra. They do look a lot a like. Violet's baby pictures look like Myra when her eyes are closed. Elaine pretty much only had the same head shape.
Anyone who has a heart kid, there is a new link to the left for Scar Bears. You should check them out for Christmas. They are pretty cute!
Too bad I can't change my vote on the Thanksgiving poll. Our plans have changed a bit. We are now driving down on Thanksgiving, instead of the day before. It will be a longgggggg day! But fun. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
Sunday, November 18, 2007
We had a fairly busy weekend. Our friend Gerran came over and played games on Friday. It was fun, even if I lost! :) Saturday we did a bunch of work around the house and then went into Provo. I go to help my friend Deann put highlights in her hair. She looked like Medusa for a while, but once we got the hang of things, it went well. It didn't turn out half bad either. I think that it looks great. Now the test id to see if her husband will notice when he sees her next week.
Deann amazes me. He husband works out of state and only gets to come home on the weekends. Depending on where he is, not even every weekend. I would go completely insane! I don't know how she holds it together, taking care of her 10, 8, 6 and 1 year old's all on her own. You are a Wonder Woman, Deann!
After the hair stuff we went to the Brady's for Joshua's Birthday. He wanted to have a Halloween Party, so the kids were in costume. They bobbed for apples, turned the dad's into mummy's and made creepy hands with popcorn. It was a fun party. Violet decided to go in her Butterfly costume and Ashton was Sully. Jaylyn is also here for a quick visit. She has to leave tonight to work, and will drive back on Tuesday so she can come with us for Thanksgiving. It will be fun having her with us. Vi & Ashton were so excited to see her this morning!
Congrats to Steven & Sara Sullivan who had their baby daughter Ruby this week! Happy Birthday to Sariah Croft who turned one!
Friday, November 16, 2007
I don't know about everyone else, but we are pretty excited for Thanksgiving. We are heading to Beaver for the big day. My parents and my brother and sister - in -law will also be joining us at my grandparents. I have been busy figuring out food menus and stuff. I really should be spending the time cleaning my house, but that isn't any fun. Plus we have our major Christmas items for the kids all purchased. Yay! Any ideas for Myra? She doesn't really need clothes, or toys....
I was looking through pictures today, trying to figure out who Myra looks the most like. I compared her to pictures of Elaine, Vi & Ashton when they were all about her age. She looks the most like Violet right now!
I've just been going to volleyball, and taking care of kids. All the regular stuff. Nothing new or exciting. We just want to send our love out to our little Heart Friend Noah's family. He passed away this week, as did little Bree - Elle from another group. We are so sorry that your babies will not be with you on earth. Your angels will be watching over you though.
Posted by Melissa at 10:10 AM
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
I just had two quick, rather humorous things to post. Anyone who knows me, knows how much I love Christmas music. I am one of those "freaks" who can listen to it all year round. Darin called me today to inform me that I have corrupted the radio waves. His favorite station (I think it played 80's & 90's rockish music) had once again switched over to Christmas for the duration of the year. YES! More for me! The only thing that bothers me about the all Christmas radio stations, besides the obvious commercials, is that they seem to play the same few songs over and over. they need more variety....Maybe I'll send them some of mine! ;)
The other day there was a banging noise, alllll DAY LOOOng. It was akin to someone hammering. I knew it had to be something else, unless they were neurotic and hammering in nail after nail into a board or something. Anyway....long story short, there are two Woodpeckers that decided to try and make their home at my house, and then moved next door. The darned things would sit and peck peck peck on our over hang for the back porch. then fly to the west side of my neighbors house and peck on the side of her house, near the roof. Once in a while the birds would hit metal, and it would scare them half to death. Violet thought it was great to watch.
remember that the Festival of trees is coming up quick! If anyone has Care Bear stuff they want to donate, send it ASAP. Thank you to everyone who has helped out. I'll be sure to post pictures of it in a couple weeks.
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Monday, November 12, 2007
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Friday, November 9, 2007
Here are a couple of links to newspaper articles about the Berlin Heart that Kaidence received:
You can also watch a news spot on her at KSL.com
Good Luck Kaidence!
Posted by Melissa at 10:21 AM
Thursday, November 8, 2007
If only it were that easy to find someone! I went to volleyball today and some how Ashton escaped from the church. Usually it's just the gym, but today he made it outside. It took about 30 loooooooong minutes to find him. He had made it up the hill on the east side of the building, into a yard (no fence) and was playing on their play equipment. Man I am tired after having ran around the building (inside and out) about 4 times. don't tell my Dr. since my 6 weeks isn't up yet. My stomach muscles hurt now. I am just glad he was safe.
It was a very exhausting 30 minutes. Of course all these worst case scenarios kept flashing in my mind. He is such a wanderer. Elaine and Vi never were. And I hope Myra isn't. I try and keep a close eye on him, but I can only do so much. He has even escaped from nursery. The amazing thing in all of this, is he cannot open doors. He can't reach the door knobs, so either someone lets him out or leaves the door open. I think I may be back to keeping him in a stroller during volley ball, and listening to him scream the entire time. :( Poor boy! If anyone has ideas, let me know. I could bring my play pen, but he can probably climb out of it by now.....
In other news, Kaidence's Berlin Heart procedure went spectacular!!!! Dr.'s and her parents did a press conference a short time ago. I don't know when or if it will be on the news, but I'll definitely be looking! I have a lot going on for Primary the next few days and may not find time to post. Thanks for reading!!
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Posted by Melissa at 10:54 AM
Yesterday I had the opportunity to travel to Idaho to attend the funeral of Ian. Carolyn & I drove together. I really enjoyed the time we had to visit and chat in the car. We took Myra with us and she did phenomenally well. The funeral was very peaceful. Both parents bore their testimonies. It was so sweet. Of course it brought back a lot of memories.... One of the special musical numbers was "I am a child of God", which we sang at Elaine's funeral. If anyone is interested in listening to Elaine's funeral, you can go to www.elaineandrew.com It is all there.
At the graveside, we released balloons. It was a sweet, peaceful day. I hope the family has continued comfort in the rough days, months, and years to come.
It is a big day for another heat family as Kaidence is receiving her Berlin Heart today. Carolyn and I were able to visit with Kaidence's mother yesterday. If you are interested in how she is doing, please visit their blog. It is listed under heart friends.
Also at the hospital we posted fliers about Intermountain Healing Hearts, talked with Valerie and Dr. Day briefly. We also went up to oncology to visit with Cohen, Kelsi's brother. He should be heading home today!
There were a couple of accidents on the freeway, so we got home a little later than anticipated. I threw my stuff in the house and had to head right over to go visiting teaching. Whew, what a long day. 12 hours of non stop travel.....and I'm not even getting a vacation out of it. ;) It was a good day though. I am glad Carolyn and I were able to serve others and offer support to them. I hope it makes a difference.
I am very thankful to my husband, who was able to work from home and spend a fabulous day with his kids!
Happy Birthday to Sarah Heinrich & Joshua Brady today!!
Posted by Melissa at 10:32 AM
Monday, November 5, 2007
We had a pretty busy weekend, or at least it felt that way. Friday Darin and I attempted to watch a movie together, but like always, it was late and I fell asleep for the end. Oh well, it wasn't that great anyway. Saturday was Kenny's birthday. Happy Birthday old Fart! Also on Saturday we tried to get a few things done around the house. Packed up and headed for Salt Lake. We attended a meeting at Primary Children's for our support group. We got the logo more finalized and put together care packages. It was good to get things moving.
After the hospital we met up with my Aunt Donna. She live in Wyoming, but attends the Ogden Temple for their ward temple trips. We drove over to my cousin's house and visited with her family for a while. Her new baby seemed so small compared to Myra. What a difference a month makes! Tina seemed to be doing really good! Josie was a little unsure of us and Ashton was scared of their dogs. Once we left there we headed to Wingers for dinner. Man, going to a restaurant with three kids was busy. Ashton was on one for some reason and kept trying to climb out of our booth and crazy stuff like that. The restaurant was really busy and extremely loud. I think that added to the confusion. We had a nice time visiting with Donna. When we got home the kids crashed. Darin and I changed clocks and tried to watch another movie. I woke up to him laughing his head off. I only caught the first 5 minutes of that movie. Oh well...
Sunday morning was nice. Darin got the kids ready! That doesn't happen very often. And he put dinner in the crock pot for after church. I felt a little spoiled. I loved it though. Darin has been so great and helpful. I am so thankful for a loving husband who cares about his family and wife. I love you Darin!!
Tomorrow I'm off to Pocatello for a funeral of one of the heart babies. I hope Myra does well on the drive!
Posted by Melissa at 1:37 PM
Sometimes you have to wonder...What is up with my kid! On Sunday, Violet says she has a treasure in her purse that she got in one of her candies the other day. I'm thinking...I don't know of any candy that have "toy prizes" inside. So I ask her to show it to me. She takes everything out of her little purse (papers, blocks, doll clothes, dead flowers) and something silver. She says this is her treasure. She puts it in my hand, and that's right, you guessed it, it is her crown. Not the new one, thank goodness, but the one we thought she had swallowed! What the heck! So I guess she was eating a chewy candy, a Now and Later I think, and basically it pulled off her crown. Only she didn't know it was her crown and thought it was some silver treasure that was inside the candy. What a find! So now we have an extra "tooth" in our house. Too bad they are rather costly! I guess we have a spare now....
On the way home from visiting teaching this morning, Ashton says he has boogers. I turn and look at him, and of course find not green slime, but blood all over his face. GRRRR. So we get home and try and clean him up, but he keeps making it worse by blowing his nose and spraying blood all over. I about gagged when he started licking the blood off his had and saying, Oh, Yum! Gross! It finally stopped, but I am reluctant to leave him alone for fear it will start up again. My favorite part of these two events, is the fact that Violet was showing her primary class her treasure.....Her teacher, whom I happen to visit teach, asked me today why Violet had a tooth in her bag at church. I had nothing to say except, I have no idea!
I got my piano tuned today. When the tuner left, he said it will be a lot more fun to play now. He sure was right!
Posted by Melissa at 1:26 PM
Friday, November 2, 2007
Now, you may think that the crown to which I refer is a toy, costume or some other royalty related object. Unfortunately I am actually referring to a crown in my daughters mouth. She likes to call it her princess crown. As we were eating breakfast this morning, she says her tooth is loose. I was a little confused since she is a little young to be losing teeth yet. When I look in her mouth - her crown is gone. She must have swallowed it with her cereal. I'm guessing that it got loose somehow on some Halloween candy. So we made a mad dash to the dentist to get fitted for another one. The funny things is we missed running into our friends there, by mere minutes. They also had teeth issues this morning. On another note, I am feeling fine today after playing volleyball yesterday. Yippie! I was afraid I might be a little sore...
There has been a lot going on in our heart world at Intermountain Healing Hearts. We now have a branch called Intermountain Healing Hearts Angels - for those of us who have lost our children. I hope that we are able to make a difference and be there for each other.
We also lost baby Ian Pearson yesterday. He had a long and hard fight. He was on Ecmo for a long time and had many complications. Our hearts go out tho Jenn & Justin & Ian's sister Emily. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Also, Kaidence (heart kid) is scheduled to be the first child at PCMC, and in Utah to receive the Berlin Heart. It is a left ventricular assist device. She will be quite the pioneer. It will be a new procedure for some performing it, so we hope and pray all goes well. There are many fasting for her this weekend, if anyone feel so inclined. To check out more information, please go to: http://www.lpch.org/pdf/jasonZhao/berlinHeart.pdf or to http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=38576
This device is only to help her wait for the transplant she needs, but can significantly improve her quality of life and extend her life until a heart can be found. Darin and I are glad that PCMC has taken this step, because it was not an option for Elaine when she was in Kaidence's situation. They Dr.s kept saying, if only it was made for children. If only it was available to her....and here we are three and a half years later and Kaidence will be the first one in Utah. We are glad she has more options now. Good luck!
The answer to theSurvey is......I see Violet in your eyes. Good job guys!
Posted by Melissa at 1:15 PM
Thursday, November 1, 2007
I hope that everyone had a safe and fun Halloween. My kids forgot for the most part that it was Halloween yesterday. I'm glad for the fact I didn't have them bugging me all day about it. Violet went with a friend to the Halloween parade at the elementary school. She had fun seeing all of the kids dressed up. When Darin go home, we quickly got ready. I had fake eyelashes, black skirt & shirt. Rainbow socks and boots. I was a witch, and had the hat with orange and red feathers on it. I curled Vi's hair and gave her an up do. She promptly made it all fall out when she ran around. anyway, she had a pink, poofy princess/Glenda the Good Witch costume, with a crown. She's saving the butterfly costume for next year. This girl likes to plan!
Ashton was a very cute, I mean terribly scary James P. Sullivan, AKA Sully from Monsters Inc. He looked warm and fuzzy. He got many compliments on his costume! Myra, sadly didn't have a costume, but she didn't seem to mind. Darin, well we don't quite know what he was. He had on a jacket/poncho type thing that he bought in Chile. It was tan and dark brown. He also wore a beanie and a grey beard and moustache. Then he topped it all off with a sombrero and hiking boots. your guess is as good as mine. He was disguised so well, that Sky asked why that strange man was following us.
We went to the wards soup supper. We missed the trunk or treat. Then we went to Spanish Fork to trick or treat with our friends the Bishops. Sky & Vi were pretty speedy with the trick or treating. We lucked out this year and didn't have any rain or snow! It wasn't even too cold. That's a first! Ashton and Maddie Moo were a lot slower, and took their time. But they still had a good time. They treated for about an hour or so. Needless to say, they have more candy than they can handle. I'm sure Dad will help them out with that! I did notice that everyone just buys the cheap stuff now. I got way better things when I was a kid!
Darin finished off the evening by telling the kids a scary Evelyner story. It was fun to see their reactions. Don't worry, it wasn't too scary, and to my knowledge, no nightmares resulted from it. Darin and I tried to watch Spellbound - an Alfred Hitchcock movie, but both fell asleep. We are such fuddy duddies! Ha Ha. Sorry there aren't any pictures. I need to get my film developed. Then I will post them.
We kept Gink - our black cat - in the house while we were out so no harm would befall him. This morning he brought us a dead bird. Gross! Vi almost let him in the house with it.....AGHH. Plus, Myra has been sleeping in four hour chunks at night! Wonderful. She is a month old and has been doing this for two days. Hopefully it keeps up, because I'm not feeling like too much of a zombie. On a side note, since Myra is 4 weeks old I went and played volleyball today. I tried to take it easy. I was pretty bad, but it was fun. We will see how sore I am tomorrow. I'm feeling good now though.
Posted by Melissa at 1:29 PM